Please help I'm drinking far too much to blot out what's happening. My Mum is living with us my Dad is in their house on his own with carers 4 times a day she doesn't want to go home understandably as Dad is so demanding Yemi the CM is so far not that helpful I am trying my best but it just doesn't seem to be good enough. Thank heaven for spell check. Drinking as I'm writing this. Mum doesn't know how I am feeling as it would make her feel bad and would insist on going home but I know she would not be able to cope with things. Where will it all end. Dad is in is own world at times and other times just demanding we go and do things for him which is what Mum was doing. They are both in their early nineties with failing health. I am sorry but drink has fueled this rant.