Visited Dad today, he's been good for quite a few days now. However as soon as clapped eyes on him tonight I knew something wasn't right but I can't say what. He was slumped in his chair, barely on the same planet as the rest of us. I couldn't get him to sit up and he looked through me like I wasn't there. The staff said 'he's fine, eaten all his dinner' but if I can see that he is not 'normal' why cant they? I did manage to get him to eat his tea, puree mash & mince, mmmmm, nice! Paracetamol was the answer apparently, just in case he has a headache!! He may have, he can't talk coherently now, something is amiss, I just know.
He has been diagnosed for 7 years now and is approaching 87 years of age, I don't know what to expect any more. I'm told he is in the final stages of AD but what are the final stages and how long does it last? What happens next? He's sleeping 18 hours a day, is that a clue? It's a long haul and I really am struggling with holding it all together as there is only me. I hate to say it but is the end approaching? Not sure if this is a general pattern of AD, can anyone advise?
Thankyou for understanding and being there. xx
He has been diagnosed for 7 years now and is approaching 87 years of age, I don't know what to expect any more. I'm told he is in the final stages of AD but what are the final stages and how long does it last? What happens next? He's sleeping 18 hours a day, is that a clue? It's a long haul and I really am struggling with holding it all together as there is only me. I hate to say it but is the end approaching? Not sure if this is a general pattern of AD, can anyone advise?
Thankyou for understanding and being there. xx