dad has a DOL at present in hospital awaiting a place in a home. feel like family have given up on him and ‘got rid’ of the problem- feel like I’m the only one who thinks it’s cruel and not right that he can’t come back to his own home and belongings etc. Having panicky feelings thinking of him begging to be let home - what can I Do? Can’t focus on work. Wish he could live with me, feel hopeless.