Hello all,
My father in law, passed away on Wednesday, we haven't told mum who has dm, the funeral is not till 1st August so a couple of weeks away yet, the plan is to tell mum a few days before and let her attend the funeral. This is a very hard decision to have to make. At the moment she is constantly asking after him and wanting to get home to cook for him as she knows he not been well. Has anyone experienced having to do the above, did it have such a negative impact on the pwdm. I'm sure once she is told she won't want to live herself and give up. Being in the CH isn't perfect but the best way to go. Also the financial considerations of owning her own home has an added complication as to do we do a deffered payment scheme or go self funding, as at present we do a top up fee. Does this make a difference.
Why is everything so complicated.
Yours, really feeling tired.
H x
My father in law, passed away on Wednesday, we haven't told mum who has dm, the funeral is not till 1st August so a couple of weeks away yet, the plan is to tell mum a few days before and let her attend the funeral. This is a very hard decision to have to make. At the moment she is constantly asking after him and wanting to get home to cook for him as she knows he not been well. Has anyone experienced having to do the above, did it have such a negative impact on the pwdm. I'm sure once she is told she won't want to live herself and give up. Being in the CH isn't perfect but the best way to go. Also the financial considerations of owning her own home has an added complication as to do we do a deffered payment scheme or go self funding, as at present we do a top up fee. Does this make a difference.
Why is everything so complicated.
Yours, really feeling tired.
H x