Have had an awful day. Mum phoned distraught from the hospital, saying Dad was in pain, she asked the nurse and she said she would see to it which of course she didn't. Then Mum was ushered into a room and asked her opinion on a decision on whether or not to feed Dad????? Mum had been through this and also me and my hubby on Friday with the consultant. It appears the consultant didn't make clear notes hence the discussion with my Mum. How unfair to go through that again. Then we find out thet the referral to pallative care team hasn't even been done yet. This was agreed on Friday, FOUR days ago. I had several heated conversations with a nurse whom I could hardly understand and she went on to tell me he had been prescribed rectal paracaetomol. I was livid, how can you give this to my poor dad in his condition, is this appropriate, have you never heard of morphine patches? She said he hadn't been presribed them yet. I now realise this isn't the best place for Dad so have made umpteen phone calls today to try to get him moved to a hospice, I hope we are not too late, I thought he was in the best place now I'm not sure. This is a nightmare, I am trying to do all I can why do the hospital not understand this awful situation. The sad thing is I know complaining will get me nowhere.