Hi
I'm not sure wha to do now and am lookin for some advice please.
My Dad has now sort of realised that he needs help and that he can't leave mum.
I have talked to my dad tonight who realises that mum needs something, but not sure what?
I have then talked to my mum, who said that she could not talk to me cause he was listening and watching.
She talked about being left out and not in the know, and dad going to play golf, but she couldn't go cause he likes playing with the men!!! Just his way out.
How can i bes help feel i need to be closer, but am about 200 miles away so i cant just go!
I feel that this is just a get out clause for me, but have 2 children, no not young but 16 & 19 and they need more help as they get older beleive me!!
Has anyone else been in my situation and can advise me of what to do?
My sister is supportive, but ready to give birth any day, and my brother is semi interested!!!
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks
Gillian
I'm not sure wha to do now and am lookin for some advice please.
My Dad has now sort of realised that he needs help and that he can't leave mum.
I have talked to my dad tonight who realises that mum needs something, but not sure what?
I have then talked to my mum, who said that she could not talk to me cause he was listening and watching.
She talked about being left out and not in the know, and dad going to play golf, but she couldn't go cause he likes playing with the men!!! Just his way out.
How can i bes help feel i need to be closer, but am about 200 miles away so i cant just go!
I feel that this is just a get out clause for me, but have 2 children, no not young but 16 & 19 and they need more help as they get older beleive me!!
Has anyone else been in my situation and can advise me of what to do?
My sister is supportive, but ready to give birth any day, and my brother is semi interested!!!
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks
Gillian