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Dad is 87 years old and has had memory problems for a long while with very slow progress. Probably more than 5 or six years now. It has worsened slowly over the last year and a then a month back we had to stop him driving. Too many minor dents then a bad scrape and then he mislaid the car altogether.
He is very stubborn and insists his memory problems are normal for someone of his age. I am sure he has some form of alzheimers but I don't think he wants to know so I am just going along with that. I managed to get him to the doctors because I said he was not to drive until he had seen a doctor just for a check up and I got the doctor to say no more driving so he has accepted that. Doctor checked his bloods and blood pressure and he seems quiet healthy. He has also referred him to a memory clinic.
He seems to have worsened since the car episode and lost all confidence. Is this sudden progression normal or is it a result of loss of independence. He worries about everything, he has another appointment this week but I dare not tell him. I will spring it on him on the day as just another check up (which it is)
He can't make a simple decision to save his life. I give him two choices when we go out for lunch and he agonises and then says I'll have what you have.
He is such a sweet and gentle man and this breaks my heart. I try to bolster him up a bit but it does not seem to work.
Any advice welcome.
Dad is 87 years old and has had memory problems for a long while with very slow progress. Probably more than 5 or six years now. It has worsened slowly over the last year and a then a month back we had to stop him driving. Too many minor dents then a bad scrape and then he mislaid the car altogether.
He is very stubborn and insists his memory problems are normal for someone of his age. I am sure he has some form of alzheimers but I don't think he wants to know so I am just going along with that. I managed to get him to the doctors because I said he was not to drive until he had seen a doctor just for a check up and I got the doctor to say no more driving so he has accepted that. Doctor checked his bloods and blood pressure and he seems quiet healthy. He has also referred him to a memory clinic.
He seems to have worsened since the car episode and lost all confidence. Is this sudden progression normal or is it a result of loss of independence. He worries about everything, he has another appointment this week but I dare not tell him. I will spring it on him on the day as just another check up (which it is)
He can't make a simple decision to save his life. I give him two choices when we go out for lunch and he agonises and then says I'll have what you have.
He is such a sweet and gentle man and this breaks my heart. I try to bolster him up a bit but it does not seem to work.
Any advice welcome.