Hi, I am new to this forum, and wondering if anyone can help
My dad (83) is showing all of the signs of dementia, although as not been officially diagnosed. He often gets confused and forgets answers to questions which he has asked.Mum seems fine at the moment but is caring for dad on a daily basis. His mobility is not good(walks with a frame). Our problem is that dad does not seem to accept that he has issues, and is getting very angry with mum. He has been very active in both his working life and his retirement, but as time has passed and he has become less mobile he has slowed down. We are very aware of his memory and confusion issues, but dad won't accept that he has any issues. We want to protect him, so that the outside community don't see that he has issues, but although we have very carefully said that maybe he shouldn't carry on with his voluntary work (which has legal implications) he has become very angry and defensive towards mum. He is hurting her emotionally . Whilst I am trying my best to support her, how should I broach the subject with dad.
Any advice would be appreciated
My dad (83) is showing all of the signs of dementia, although as not been officially diagnosed. He often gets confused and forgets answers to questions which he has asked.Mum seems fine at the moment but is caring for dad on a daily basis. His mobility is not good(walks with a frame). Our problem is that dad does not seem to accept that he has issues, and is getting very angry with mum. He has been very active in both his working life and his retirement, but as time has passed and he has become less mobile he has slowed down. We are very aware of his memory and confusion issues, but dad won't accept that he has any issues. We want to protect him, so that the outside community don't see that he has issues, but although we have very carefully said that maybe he shouldn't carry on with his voluntary work (which has legal implications) he has become very angry and defensive towards mum. He is hurting her emotionally . Whilst I am trying my best to support her, how should I broach the subject with dad.
Any advice would be appreciated