My dad has late stage Alzheimers. He was admitted to hospital 5 weeks ago after a number of falls. He had been cared for at home by my mum until then.
He is doubly incontinent, has virtually no remaining speech, is now unable to walk, assisted or otherwise, is spoon fed and has difficulty chewing (among other things)
Mum fully expected him to come home but was advised last week by OT that this wouldn't be possible. He would need 2 carers 4 times a day plus turning at night due to bed sores. They advised a care home with both nursing and dementia care.
As he is over the £24k threshold he would pay for his care, but all homes approached are asking for proof of ability to pay for 2 years!!!! At £1370 a week. Is this a normal thing? I have googled and cant find anything that's says this is normal.
We are seeking an assessment for continuing healthcare but understand this is a lengthy, complicated process with little chance of success. But in the meantime we seem to be stuck in a situation where we literally have no where for my poor dad to go.
I'd really appreciate any experiences and thoughts.
Thank you
He is doubly incontinent, has virtually no remaining speech, is now unable to walk, assisted or otherwise, is spoon fed and has difficulty chewing (among other things)
Mum fully expected him to come home but was advised last week by OT that this wouldn't be possible. He would need 2 carers 4 times a day plus turning at night due to bed sores. They advised a care home with both nursing and dementia care.
As he is over the £24k threshold he would pay for his care, but all homes approached are asking for proof of ability to pay for 2 years!!!! At £1370 a week. Is this a normal thing? I have googled and cant find anything that's says this is normal.
We are seeking an assessment for continuing healthcare but understand this is a lengthy, complicated process with little chance of success. But in the meantime we seem to be stuck in a situation where we literally have no where for my poor dad to go.
I'd really appreciate any experiences and thoughts.
Thank you