Dear fellow journeymen,
Hope you have all had a half decent Xmas etc with family.
Just a quick question. It’s been 12 weeks since mum died in the nursing home and dad was with her. She was in the home for 4 yrs. Dad visited 3 times a week. He was married to her for 54yrs. I’m home now with hubby till the 5th. Dad is very lonely and I’m his only close family. He is not right. He has his moments and did briefly say he would get counciling if needed . As a family we don’t really talk about our feelings bar on the surface. He has macular degeneration too. While we’ve been here he’s been flakey memory wise. Repeating stuff in a couple of mins. Not too much but enough to notice and wonder what’s up. He’s 88 on Saturday. What I’m wondering is it depression, stress us being here or starting of dementia ? On top of this as always hubby and I fight due to them not getting on. He feels left out and thinks l don’t want him here. I’m in the middle trying to please everyone. Never mind.
Probably just having a worry!!
Thanks for listening. Sue xx
Hope you have all had a half decent Xmas etc with family.
Just a quick question. It’s been 12 weeks since mum died in the nursing home and dad was with her. She was in the home for 4 yrs. Dad visited 3 times a week. He was married to her for 54yrs. I’m home now with hubby till the 5th. Dad is very lonely and I’m his only close family. He is not right. He has his moments and did briefly say he would get counciling if needed . As a family we don’t really talk about our feelings bar on the surface. He has macular degeneration too. While we’ve been here he’s been flakey memory wise. Repeating stuff in a couple of mins. Not too much but enough to notice and wonder what’s up. He’s 88 on Saturday. What I’m wondering is it depression, stress us being here or starting of dementia ? On top of this as always hubby and I fight due to them not getting on. He feels left out and thinks l don’t want him here. I’m in the middle trying to please everyone. Never mind.
Probably just having a worry!!
Thanks for listening. Sue xx