He lost his long battle at 6.12pm tonight, I was in the car on the way to see him.... Today, they said he had days to live... Then they said his breathing was shallow, but he was ok.... Kept ringing the care home , nurse was fantastic ..... She then said he had tempature, so I said " ok will be there " she rang ten mins later and said he had gone , my best friend said we should go and see his body and say goodbye, but I couldnt, I just couldn't .... Should I have done, it's to late now !!!! ... It's scary cos I am ok one min, then I have this overwhelming sadness and I cry ..... We had a very turbulent relationship, in fact we hated each other most of my life .... I did not speak to him for 12 years after my mum died, then was told he was not well and gave up work to look after him for three years.... What I am trying to say is that , I finally got a relationship with my dad and now he died alone ...... God bless everyone on this bloody horrible journey xxxxxx