Hi all.
My Dad's neighbour has always been really kind to me whilst I have been looking after my Dad, he is always helpful and he has my mobile n0 incase there is a problem. He does not help with care ect, its a case of you know where I am if you need anything.
My Dad see's things and imagins all sorts of things, do not get me wrong I am mindful not to disbelieve every thing he says but some things are just not right.
He is saying today that his neighbour used his neighbours scaffolding to get up on the roof and he was working on the roof until 2.30am, he also claims that his neighbour was on my Dads roof too. Previously to this my Dad claimed the neighbour was coming in his house when he was out and feeding his dog (the vet told Dad off as his dog was very overweight) My Dad's house is a four storey, I do not believe his neighbour was on his roof nor feeding his dog.
I guess I should go and see Dads neighbour to warn him, but is this how its going to be, clearly it is real to my Dad but I worry how far he will take his suspicians. I normally just go along with him but I do not wish to fuel this one.
Dad has vascular dementia and frontal lobe dementia.
Turmoil
My Dad's neighbour has always been really kind to me whilst I have been looking after my Dad, he is always helpful and he has my mobile n0 incase there is a problem. He does not help with care ect, its a case of you know where I am if you need anything.
My Dad see's things and imagins all sorts of things, do not get me wrong I am mindful not to disbelieve every thing he says but some things are just not right.
He is saying today that his neighbour used his neighbours scaffolding to get up on the roof and he was working on the roof until 2.30am, he also claims that his neighbour was on my Dads roof too. Previously to this my Dad claimed the neighbour was coming in his house when he was out and feeding his dog (the vet told Dad off as his dog was very overweight) My Dad's house is a four storey, I do not believe his neighbour was on his roof nor feeding his dog.
I guess I should go and see Dads neighbour to warn him, but is this how its going to be, clearly it is real to my Dad but I worry how far he will take his suspicians. I normally just go along with him but I do not wish to fuel this one.
Dad has vascular dementia and frontal lobe dementia.
Turmoil
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