Hello all,
My dad contracted pneumonia just before Christmas. He has had AZ about 7 years now. He is at home with my mum, but since the pneumonia he has declined really quite quickly, in particular, the double incontinence, which mum is now finding really hard. She is so tired and cannot sleep at night, because he is always up about 2/3 times and needs help. Mum saw a social worker yesterday, who said that she was surprised mum had been able to manage this long. Dad wasn't anywhere near this bad before the pneumonia, and when mum mentioned the home all he said was I don't care. We dont really know what he feels. I have been unwell the last few days, so havent been down, but want to go tomorrow cos he often speaks to me. What do you think I should say and any advice would be much appreciated. He has been going into this home once every 4 weeks for about 6 months now and seems to like it, but I'm afraid that once he goes in he is going to decline rapidly.
What are your thoughts. Thanks
Snooky xx
My dad contracted pneumonia just before Christmas. He has had AZ about 7 years now. He is at home with my mum, but since the pneumonia he has declined really quite quickly, in particular, the double incontinence, which mum is now finding really hard. She is so tired and cannot sleep at night, because he is always up about 2/3 times and needs help. Mum saw a social worker yesterday, who said that she was surprised mum had been able to manage this long. Dad wasn't anywhere near this bad before the pneumonia, and when mum mentioned the home all he said was I don't care. We dont really know what he feels. I have been unwell the last few days, so havent been down, but want to go tomorrow cos he often speaks to me. What do you think I should say and any advice would be much appreciated. He has been going into this home once every 4 weeks for about 6 months now and seems to like it, but I'm afraid that once he goes in he is going to decline rapidly.
What are your thoughts. Thanks
Snooky xx