Hi there,
Dad went into respite care for two weeks starting today. What a day! I didnt tell him where we were going until we got there as I didnt want a repeat of what happened before. I was feeling really awful that i was not being honest but I think that was the best way this time. I think with this illness the carers are damned if they do and damned if they dont. I should be happy that Dad is now getting the professional care he deserves so why do I feel as if I am letting him down and why do I feel soo guilty. I have been crying on and off since I left him in the care home and I feel exhausted and awful. I wonder if anyone else has these mixed emotions. I thought I would leave it till tomorrow to find out how he is getting on.
Regards
M
Dad went into respite care for two weeks starting today. What a day! I didnt tell him where we were going until we got there as I didnt want a repeat of what happened before. I was feeling really awful that i was not being honest but I think that was the best way this time. I think with this illness the carers are damned if they do and damned if they dont. I should be happy that Dad is now getting the professional care he deserves so why do I feel as if I am letting him down and why do I feel soo guilty. I have been crying on and off since I left him in the care home and I feel exhausted and awful. I wonder if anyone else has these mixed emotions. I thought I would leave it till tomorrow to find out how he is getting on.
Regards
M