Hi everyone,
Dad went into hospital this morning with a suspected seizure. He's staying in overnight while they observe him.
We're so so very worried - he's in advance stages and doesn't really communicate more than 3 words at a time but will very freaked out and aggressive without a familiar face about. I 100% understand why we can't be there but it seems so so cruel as I can't imagine how distressed he'll be. Is it likely he will be on a ward with other dementia patients? Or do they not really have separate wards, do you know? I just hope he's in where people understand his quirks.
I also had a call from the doctor but it was only to ask me whether there was any DNR decision in place. It was such a shock to receive that call out of the blue. I didn't ask her at the time, because I was so shocked, but is that just a formality to ask that kind of thing?
I can't bear thinking how freaked out dad will be.
Dad went into hospital this morning with a suspected seizure. He's staying in overnight while they observe him.
We're so so very worried - he's in advance stages and doesn't really communicate more than 3 words at a time but will very freaked out and aggressive without a familiar face about. I 100% understand why we can't be there but it seems so so cruel as I can't imagine how distressed he'll be. Is it likely he will be on a ward with other dementia patients? Or do they not really have separate wards, do you know? I just hope he's in where people understand his quirks.
I also had a call from the doctor but it was only to ask me whether there was any DNR decision in place. It was such a shock to receive that call out of the blue. I didn't ask her at the time, because I was so shocked, but is that just a formality to ask that kind of thing?
I can't bear thinking how freaked out dad will be.