I’m very worried about my mum. My dad looks after her and denies she dementia. He says mum has got short memory loss. He won’t go the doctor and gets quite angry when I bring the conversation up. Mum repeats everything and thinks she has bought things although she hadn’t. My dad has her bank card due just in case someone phone's and asks for her bank details. She gets up in the night and searches for her inhaler for her COPD then gets angry with my dad and saying it’s empty when clearly it isn’t. And demands to know where the inhalers are. This is totally no my mum. She’s always been quiet and very laid back Am I being unreasonable or is it short term memory? I’m in turmoil.