Hi everybody
What a few weeks it has been!!
After being hospitalised Bank holiday weekend, and Social Services and RMN assessing Dad, it has been decided that he has no mental capacity for making decsions, me being next of kin have had to sign for him to go into 24/7 care. He had "escaped" on several occassions in hospital, the last one involved the police!!
He has moved to a care home, which I thought would be safe, however, I have been informed that he has managed to get out every day he has been there so far!! I also have to create diversions when I am ready to leave as he assumes he is coming with me!! Any advice on this would be good
Power of Attorney was all set to go at the solicitors, however, it is now too late!! I may be at the mercy of Social Services, I didn't expect to be homeless at 53!!
Any suggestions would be gratefully recived.
Last and by no means least, how do you get over the guilt? I feel as if I have let him down??
I cannot believe that his condition has deterioted that quickly, he has Vascular dementia, can it change that rapidly?
Thanks everybody, feel abit better now.
Susi XXXX
What a few weeks it has been!!
After being hospitalised Bank holiday weekend, and Social Services and RMN assessing Dad, it has been decided that he has no mental capacity for making decsions, me being next of kin have had to sign for him to go into 24/7 care. He had "escaped" on several occassions in hospital, the last one involved the police!!
He has moved to a care home, which I thought would be safe, however, I have been informed that he has managed to get out every day he has been there so far!! I also have to create diversions when I am ready to leave as he assumes he is coming with me!! Any advice on this would be good
Power of Attorney was all set to go at the solicitors, however, it is now too late!! I may be at the mercy of Social Services, I didn't expect to be homeless at 53!!
Any suggestions would be gratefully recived.
Last and by no means least, how do you get over the guilt? I feel as if I have let him down??
I cannot believe that his condition has deterioted that quickly, he has Vascular dementia, can it change that rapidly?
Thanks everybody, feel abit better now.
Susi XXXX