Crying when I think of Mum

Discussion in 'ARCHIVE FORUM: Support discussions' started by feral07, Oct 17, 2007.

  1. feral07

    feral07 Registered User

    Oct 17, 2007
    3
    Dunfermline
    This will seem stupid to you all but my Mum is now in hospital full time, and every time I think about her I just burst out in tears, she's can't speak properly now and I think she knows me, but it kills me to see her like that or think about her like that. I know she'd hate to see her self like this.

    She attacked me the other week, but I know it wasn't her that was doing it.

    I feel like a fool for crying, and I don't understand why I do....

    But I do know I love her to bits she's been my guardian and best friend through my life...

    I miss my old Mum
     
  2. Skye

    Skye Registered User

    Aug 29, 2006
    17,000
    SW Scotland
    Dear Feral, welcome to TP.

    Of course you cry about your mum. It's awful to see our loved ones suffering in this way, turning into someone we don't recognise, yet whom we still love so deeply. Believe me, we all know that feeling. You are grieving for the person she was, your loving mum. She is still there, but you are still grieving, because she is no longer the mum you depended on for all those years.

    I'm glad you've found TP. We can't do anything to ease your pain, but we do understand, because we all feel the same.

    Post on here whenever you need to, you will always find friendship and support.

    Love,
     
  3. alfjess

    alfjess Registered User

    Jul 10, 2006
    1,213
    south lanarkshire
     

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