I visited dad today, the first visit since I took him to the new home on Wednesday. He was fast asleep in a chair in the lounge when I arrived. But he looked so well and content. The redness and dry skin which was covering his face on Wednesday has somehow miraculously disappeared and he was very well shaved, just like my old dad and his hair was just how he likes it.
When he awoke he was so pleased to see me, but this time, there were no questions of how I knew he was there, if he was leaving to go home or wanting to get out. He seemed so happy and settled. I can't tell you what a relief this is. The care home have also said he has not even tried to escape, he has asked to go to the bank occasionally but they have managed to distract him, by telling him there is only one bus every hour, so he's got time for a drink before he leaves and then he's been happy to get a drink and he's not mentioned going to the bank again.
I sat with him this morning and it was just so peaceful and relaxing and I actually felt the stress of the last few weeks draining away. There were three other residents in the lounge area, but they were all spread out doing different things, I even played dolls/babies with one lady and I found out this morning that the gentleman that has been following me around each time I have visited, I used to know him (now I know why he did seem familiar to me), he is from my home town and he's the Uncle of a very old friend of mine, who I lost touch with when I got married. She was there today visiting him with her Auntie and we had a lovely catch up.
It's also great that this home is just a 6 minute drive from my house, I now feel able to pop in and see dad at anytime knowing it's not going to take up half my day going back and forth.
Hope you have all had a good day?
Take care.
Elle x
Elle I am so pleased for you. xxxx