So the upshot is I failed after all.
So the upshot is I failed after all.
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So the upshot is I failed after all.
Mum may be ready to give up the fight, but I'm not. We have been down this road once before when mum was still living in her own home, and I did mange to break the ‘I’m staying in bed to die’ cycle.
I know its too early to tell, but I am the eternal optimist.
Cate said:I’m going to back off with trying to persuade her to get up for a few days more.
’m going to put her favourite film on, Gone With The Wind, and just lay on the bed with her so we can watch it together.
When I go to see mum I’m going to take one of her favourites, jelly and ice cream, and maybe a sticky bun or two, her diabetes is the least of my worries, if I can just tempt her to eat something.
I’m going to back off with trying to persuade her to get up for a few days more.
I have put all the lovely Christmas photographs in a frame for her, that might just cheer her up a bit.
I’m going to put her favourite film on, Gone With The Wind, and just lay on the bed with her so we can watch it together.
she always got the hump, moaning, grumpy short temper when she gets back from day center , she getting more tried from going to day centre of late .
Now with my mother I am finding I am enjoying her company more , when she does not go to day centre , yes she lay in bed all day , sit up when she wants to . I stop worrying about it . I just sit down in same room with her enjoy a lazy day of not rushing around .