Hi,
My partner is 77 yrs old and is deemed to be at high risk regards his chances of recovery from coronovirus as he has heart issues ( previous heart attack) and Parkinson's so not a particularly well man. I visit my dad around 4 times a week he still lives at his home with 4x daily care visits. My dad is now 86 yrs old mixed dementia and I'm getting very concerned as to whether I ought to be going to my dad's as I'm beginning to feel as if I may be putting both of them at risk now. I am 60 yrs old and fairly fit certainly in comparison to either of them. Dad very rarely goes out so if he were to catch it most likely it will have been brought into him at his home. I accept his carers do need to see to his daily care but he can have different carers on each visit or maybe same one twice in a day. My dad needs a lot of personal care as is doubly incontinent. One of dads carers said last week they are doing their best re: precautions when going to clients.
I do all of dads general shopping his main meal is from a frozen food company which carers heat up. If I don't spend time with my dad and just drop his shop in this week I will no doubt face a backlash from my sister who visits him every morning as she loves to make me feel guilty at every opportunity having not accepted I have to care for my partner now too. I took dad to the dentist this week after checking with them and they said they were being careful and he should still attend. I am frightened that I could be responsible for passing the virus to both my dad and partner as neither one of them would have much chance of recovery if what we read is true and they get infected. It seems my partner will be advised/forced to stay in soon although he doesn't come out with me much anyway but I'm out and about several times if only walking the dog or dropping in the shop. I would like to think I could recover well if I pick it up but can't bear the thought of being responsible of giving it to both of them.
My partner is 77 yrs old and is deemed to be at high risk regards his chances of recovery from coronovirus as he has heart issues ( previous heart attack) and Parkinson's so not a particularly well man. I visit my dad around 4 times a week he still lives at his home with 4x daily care visits. My dad is now 86 yrs old mixed dementia and I'm getting very concerned as to whether I ought to be going to my dad's as I'm beginning to feel as if I may be putting both of them at risk now. I am 60 yrs old and fairly fit certainly in comparison to either of them. Dad very rarely goes out so if he were to catch it most likely it will have been brought into him at his home. I accept his carers do need to see to his daily care but he can have different carers on each visit or maybe same one twice in a day. My dad needs a lot of personal care as is doubly incontinent. One of dads carers said last week they are doing their best re: precautions when going to clients.
I do all of dads general shopping his main meal is from a frozen food company which carers heat up. If I don't spend time with my dad and just drop his shop in this week I will no doubt face a backlash from my sister who visits him every morning as she loves to make me feel guilty at every opportunity having not accepted I have to care for my partner now too. I took dad to the dentist this week after checking with them and they said they were being careful and he should still attend. I am frightened that I could be responsible for passing the virus to both my dad and partner as neither one of them would have much chance of recovery if what we read is true and they get infected. It seems my partner will be advised/forced to stay in soon although he doesn't come out with me much anyway but I'm out and about several times if only walking the dog or dropping in the shop. I would like to think I could recover well if I pick it up but can't bear the thought of being responsible of giving it to both of them.