My mum is getting worse and worse. She lashes out at my dad every single day and she says horrible and nasty things about him. She will say he's not LIVING HERE WITH US!!, It's not HIS HOUSE!!, I'll go then you'll be happy. I started a job 2 months ago and I find myself calling my dad at lunchtime as I worry about him. I seriously think my dad is in danger. It's not just him she lashes out at, me as well. Yesterday I had a banging headache and she came in and smacked me on the top of my head! When I am not at work I am sad but glad I am here for my poor dad. We are all in tears every day. I read your posts and I think you all deserve medals I really do. I know it's her illness talking but she can be really horrible. We have 2 nurses that come weekly and they are good but I feel like they don't listen to my dad, he's a very quiet man and when they come he says he can't say anything as mum is wonderful around them. Medication is another thing that we all are at odds about. She now has a NOMAD system and she keeps saying we are trying to kill her and she can take her own medication but she then says Have I already had it?