Hi everyone
I'm just about to contact SS for the first time, as I know I need help. Mum has VAD and currently lives alone in sheltered accommodation. I am her only carer, as she's widowed, and I am on my own (not married).
She's still in the early stages, but she needs help with things like medication, paperwork/finances, medical appointments, encouragement to eat, etc. I'm doing most things at the moment, but I can't carry on, and I know things will get more demanding in the future. I have my own health issues as well, which could affect my ability to provide her wth care (depression/anxiety)
I just wanted to ask for some advice before I make the call. Does anyone have any tips on what to say, planning for the visit, etc. I have experienced social workers before for my Dad when he was alive, but not for someone with dementia.
I've started to make a list of the things I think she needs assistance with. She already receives attendance allowance, as she has other health problems.
thank you
Auntie P
I'm just about to contact SS for the first time, as I know I need help. Mum has VAD and currently lives alone in sheltered accommodation. I am her only carer, as she's widowed, and I am on my own (not married).
She's still in the early stages, but she needs help with things like medication, paperwork/finances, medical appointments, encouragement to eat, etc. I'm doing most things at the moment, but I can't carry on, and I know things will get more demanding in the future. I have my own health issues as well, which could affect my ability to provide her wth care (depression/anxiety)
I just wanted to ask for some advice before I make the call. Does anyone have any tips on what to say, planning for the visit, etc. I have experienced social workers before for my Dad when he was alive, but not for someone with dementia.
I've started to make a list of the things I think she needs assistance with. She already receives attendance allowance, as she has other health problems.
thank you
Auntie P