In a weird sort of way it's so good to be reading these posts! My mum is exactly the same, and sometimes it's so difficult to follow the conversation I begin to think I'm the one who is more confused!
I try to write everything on her calender, but now she forgets to look at it before ringing me to find out why I haven't turned up (on the wrong day!). I'd written that I would go last Sat afternoon to do some gardening for her and called her after lunch to say I'd be there shortly, this is the jist of the conversation.....
Me : Hi Mum!
Mum : Have you had an accident?
Me : No, why?
Mum : Well are you seriously ill then?
Me : No, why what's wrong?
Mum : Well you haven't rang me to tell me you're coming!
Me : Oh sorry, I've been out and about this morning, it's on your calender, I'll be there in 15 mins to do your garden.
Mum : I'd have thought that if you had a sore throat and can't speak you'd have got someone to ring me?
Me : I haven't got a sore throat, I'm fine.
Mum : Well I don't know that do I? I've been sitting here worried to death.
Me : Well why don't you ring me instead of worrying? I don't know that you're worrying!
Mum : Because if you've got a sore throat you probably won't answer!
AARRGGGHHHHH!!! Keep smiling!
GillU: Sounds quite familiar. You know I have a family in denial and my brother with POA sends us these emails "Remind Mom to take her water pill". Anyway, I am happy to see that my post is helping another person besides me. I think the smiles are ones of relief, not happiness. And some way of maintaining our sanity that what we are seeing (it being so foreign and all) is really what we are seeing/hearing. Yes, well the calendars don't work, because you have to remember to use them and the reminding does not work because they will forget.... And I learn.