Sorry I haven't been on for a while but you all know how it goes life gets in the way
We have just had a dreadful call from the local hospital my wifes mother is in again from a bad fall (she had been having a few falls of late in fact the care home were in the process of trying to figure out if they happened around a specific time) but this time the hospital have scanned her head and found thet she has a bleed because she is so far along with the dementia and alzheimers that they don't really want to do further scans as she will just be too upset and they have told us that this might cause her to decline even faster so we are now waiting to get another call from the hospital
I know my wife is panicing about the aftermath of her mothers passing (whenever god decides it's her time) none of the family have anything to do with my wife and she worries that no one ever will afterwards nevermind the problems of sorting out the funeral arrangements her mother has 3 life insurance policies but my wife worries how she will sort everything as her sister has all of the policy paperwork and my wife wonders if this will cause even more problems with the family
I am sorry to keep going on but I don't like my wife being in so much pain she is very family orinentated and is trying desperately to put a good face on the fact that she has no contact with her sister, nieces and nephews and their children but everytime one of them is mentioned she tends to end up crying and it doesn't help that some of the family have even gone so far as to send nasty texts so my wife is really worried that she will never be able to speak to them again
now I have vented the only questions I would like to ask are how are we supposed to go on from here now the hospital are talking about palliative care and I am wondering if we will be allowed access to my wifes mother before she passes either in the hospital or the nursing home if the hospital decide to send her back ??
I wonder if anyone has had a similar experience during this coronavirus epidemic and if there are I would like to express my sorrow at their loss
We have just had a dreadful call from the local hospital my wifes mother is in again from a bad fall (she had been having a few falls of late in fact the care home were in the process of trying to figure out if they happened around a specific time) but this time the hospital have scanned her head and found thet she has a bleed because she is so far along with the dementia and alzheimers that they don't really want to do further scans as she will just be too upset and they have told us that this might cause her to decline even faster so we are now waiting to get another call from the hospital
I know my wife is panicing about the aftermath of her mothers passing (whenever god decides it's her time) none of the family have anything to do with my wife and she worries that no one ever will afterwards nevermind the problems of sorting out the funeral arrangements her mother has 3 life insurance policies but my wife worries how she will sort everything as her sister has all of the policy paperwork and my wife wonders if this will cause even more problems with the family
I am sorry to keep going on but I don't like my wife being in so much pain she is very family orinentated and is trying desperately to put a good face on the fact that she has no contact with her sister, nieces and nephews and their children but everytime one of them is mentioned she tends to end up crying and it doesn't help that some of the family have even gone so far as to send nasty texts so my wife is really worried that she will never be able to speak to them again
now I have vented the only questions I would like to ask are how are we supposed to go on from here now the hospital are talking about palliative care and I am wondering if we will be allowed access to my wifes mother before she passes either in the hospital or the nursing home if the hospital decide to send her back ??
I wonder if anyone has had a similar experience during this coronavirus epidemic and if there are I would like to express my sorrow at their loss