I am extremely concerned for my mum and my aunt. They both play a massive part in the care of my Gran, although my grandmother is currently in hospital and has vascular dementia...but since going into hospital 9 week's ago her dementia has gotten much worse. What concerns me most is anytime my Gran is unsettled or "kicks off" in the hospital, the nurses automatically contact my mum and aunt to come to the hospital to settle my Gran. My mum and aunt are not familiar with or have had to in the past, deal with Gran since her dementia has worsened and have been offered no support or guidance on how to deal with dementia....Why are the nurses not trained/ staffed to deal with such scenarios? Are there any local support groups or charities, we can contact to seek some support or advice for my the loved ones who have deal with my poor Gran who deteriorated rapidly over the last few weeks? Appreciate any feedback any one may have?