Hi, I'm new to the forum. My sister is in the process of being diagnosed, but she is totally in denial. Of course, I can't visit her at the moment - and I live an hour away so even when restrictions are lifted it's not a short trip. I'm feeling so down and emotional about the situation. She lives with her adult son (who also has some mental health issues) but he does provide some support. Her other son and family live nearby and my sister has got it into her mind that her daughter-in-law is interfering and making these unwelcome appointments. I luckily phone her when she was due to go to an appointment (that I wasn't aware of) at the memory clinic, but wasn't going to go - I managed to persuade her to attend the appointment but she has now written DISCHARGED in her diary. I feel that I'm walking a tightrope because I think she sees me as her only ally. My parents both died with Alzheimer's and my sister and I both swore that we would do everything we could to alleviate the symptoms if we started to suffer, but of course that has all gone out of the window now. I just feel so helpless and hopeless! (Sorry about the long, rambling message.)