Hi I have just joined today so very new at this!
I am a little worried about a relative living at home with his carer, his nephew. He was diagnosed last year but appears to have declined quite a bit lately.
Sadly he occasionally urinates in the kitchen thinking it's a bathroom and so the carer intends to lock the kitchen door when out at work as the relative also goes into the fridge / cupboards etc helping himself to food and making a mess. He has been moved out of his bedroom to downstairs as he was poorly recently and there were concerns about him using the stairs. However he is now quite able to go up and down them slowly. Now his old bedroom door has been locked to ensure he doesn't go in there. He gets up several times in the night - the carer mentioned about getting sleeping tablets for the relative as he is constantly being disturbed.
I suggested that the relative pays for carers to help relieve the pressure on the family carer, to get up, shower etc. as there are more than enough funds in the bank accounts for him to ne well looked after.
It was declined!
I feel that his environment is getting smaller and smaller and I worry how he reacts to the locked doors when alone. Are these actions a deprivation of his liberty? What can be done? Cameras have been installed in the house so that the relative can be checked on when the carer goes to work - part time a few hours.
Has anyone else come across a similar situation?
Thank you
Samart
I am a little worried about a relative living at home with his carer, his nephew. He was diagnosed last year but appears to have declined quite a bit lately.
Sadly he occasionally urinates in the kitchen thinking it's a bathroom and so the carer intends to lock the kitchen door when out at work as the relative also goes into the fridge / cupboards etc helping himself to food and making a mess. He has been moved out of his bedroom to downstairs as he was poorly recently and there were concerns about him using the stairs. However he is now quite able to go up and down them slowly. Now his old bedroom door has been locked to ensure he doesn't go in there. He gets up several times in the night - the carer mentioned about getting sleeping tablets for the relative as he is constantly being disturbed.
I suggested that the relative pays for carers to help relieve the pressure on the family carer, to get up, shower etc. as there are more than enough funds in the bank accounts for him to ne well looked after.
It was declined!
I feel that his environment is getting smaller and smaller and I worry how he reacts to the locked doors when alone. Are these actions a deprivation of his liberty? What can be done? Cameras have been installed in the house so that the relative can be checked on when the carer goes to work - part time a few hours.
Has anyone else come across a similar situation?
Thank you
Samart