can't cope with all the phone calls daily, the abusiveness, the accusations, the demands, I just can't do it anymore, I'm now on valium and feel like I will have a breakdown.
I did not have poa and I have to walk away for my own sanity. I have made it clear in writing and verbally that social services and the gp need to now take over and apply for poa, but they don't seem to be doing anything except pass the buck onto me and expect me to just carry on.
if I carry on I will crack.
I have told them to come and collect his items etc from me (which they will need to be poa and deal with his finances) but they aren't allowed, apparently.
I feel like taking it all to head office of social services and saying here you are, you do it now. but how do I know what will happen to it all?
I am not able to face going to his home to leave it there as the carers might nick things and the thought of him having another go at me I just can't deal with anymore.
I just need them to take over now - they know full well that for other reasons I am not well.
I am dreading tomorrow as I just dont' know who to phone for advice about what todo with his stuff that ss will need for eventual poa, I can't do the running to the bank bit any more, and any advice about my first port of call to resolve this so that they take over from me would be very welcome.
thanks
I did not have poa and I have to walk away for my own sanity. I have made it clear in writing and verbally that social services and the gp need to now take over and apply for poa, but they don't seem to be doing anything except pass the buck onto me and expect me to just carry on.
if I carry on I will crack.
I have told them to come and collect his items etc from me (which they will need to be poa and deal with his finances) but they aren't allowed, apparently.
I feel like taking it all to head office of social services and saying here you are, you do it now. but how do I know what will happen to it all?
I am not able to face going to his home to leave it there as the carers might nick things and the thought of him having another go at me I just can't deal with anymore.
I just need them to take over now - they know full well that for other reasons I am not well.
I am dreading tomorrow as I just dont' know who to phone for advice about what todo with his stuff that ss will need for eventual poa, I can't do the running to the bank bit any more, and any advice about my first port of call to resolve this so that they take over from me would be very welcome.
thanks
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