She sounds, forgive me, like a real piece of work.
Funnily enough we had my younger SIL on the phone today sobbing about her husband maybe having to give up his driving job because of an eyesight problem. He's 67 and they have no savings and she's stressed about 'how they're all going to manage.'
1. She hasn't had a job for 35 years
2. Her son (in his thirties) lives with them so is presumably contributing
3. they run three cars between them
4. she was the recipient of the substantial monthly surplus in MILs bank account for goodness knows how long, until my husband got LPA and took over the accounts, so her secret little slush fund has now stopped.
And she now turning on the waterworks, wondering how they're going to manage.
Am I sympathetic? What do you think.....?
Don't be taken for a sucker, Justin62. Get a solicitor and apply for deputyship. At least if you end up falling out, which looks likely, you won't be out of pocket too.