"There are no restrictions on how you can spend your AA, and you do not have to spend it on paying for the care that you need."
A lot of people have their personal care carried out by their loved ones, so there is no official bill. They are still eligible. So I don't consider it fraudulent. However, personally I would never take OH's AA money as I consider it his. It gets added to his account and any expenses to do with his incontinence for instance can come out of it. And inco pads are costly!
Well it certainly doesn't say that on the Government website - my quote was taken directly from there - and it says it is paid for personal care but you are right it should be spent on the person however that is done.
Do you not get inco pads through the NHS? or aren't they suitable? They are horribly expensive
Justin there is a requirement to let the Benefits office know if
Changes of circumstances
Your circumstances can affect how much you get, eg moving between the lower and higher rates. You must contact the Attendance Allowance helpline if your circumstances change. For example:
the level of help you need or your condition changes
you go into hospital or a care home for more than 4 weeks
you go abroad for more than 13 weeks
you’re imprisoned or held in detention
You must also contact the helpline if:
you change your name, address or bank details
you want to stop receiving your benefit
your doctor’s details change