Hi all,
I have been offered 2 weeks respite for mum , in a care home, at Christmas time, I know I should be delighted about this, but, I have not spent a Christmas day away from mum in many years. my kids have told me I need to spend some time with them but I still can't get my head around it.
I went to see mum's G P. today and she also said I must have this Christmas with my kids as I am getting very stressed and worried about my operation on the 14th January.
I suppose the decision is really out of my hands,but, it's so hard to think that mum will be spending Christmas Day on her own, even though I know she will not be happy with the kids at home here, she gets very angry and agitated and makes it very uncomfortable for all.
thanks to all,
regards paris07
I have been offered 2 weeks respite for mum , in a care home, at Christmas time, I know I should be delighted about this, but, I have not spent a Christmas day away from mum in many years. my kids have told me I need to spend some time with them but I still can't get my head around it.
I went to see mum's G P. today and she also said I must have this Christmas with my kids as I am getting very stressed and worried about my operation on the 14th January.
I suppose the decision is really out of my hands,but, it's so hard to think that mum will be spending Christmas Day on her own, even though I know she will not be happy with the kids at home here, she gets very angry and agitated and makes it very uncomfortable for all.
thanks to all,
regards paris07