I suspect foul play.
Recently the check list was done for chc. I went to the care home to discus with a nurse the week before the check list. She was a senior nurse who knows my LO well. She said, yes she will definitely pass the checklist. She really needs chc.
The day before the meeting I asked the care home manager if that nurse would be present. The manager said no ‘I deal with funding’ she there will be a social worker present who will act as an advocate for you.
Come the day of the check lists, there was no advocate just me and the representative from the council care home support team. She was very abrupt and went out of her way to mark my mother down and she told me that ‘relatives opinions were of no interest to her’.
I can see why an officer in this role would want to mark my LO down as it is a funding issue.
But I also suspect that the care home manager is deliberately enabling this officer with this.
The care home manager has not replied to my emails regarding my mother’s health care and the fact she misled me about the process of the meeting. I have reported this to the CQC and actually brought a social worker into her office as a witness. She told me in front of the social worker yes I did reply to you and you replied back to that email. I said no I didn’t show me where you replied.
She looked at her screen for ages while I and the social worker didn’t say a word and just watched her. Then she said I have it here. I came round to look at her screen and there was one that appeared to be to me. I checked the date and it was recent. Then I checked who it addressed to. And it was actually addressed to the same officer who carried out the assessment. I pointed that out to her and she just said that that officer had asked her to copy her in with all emails between me and the care home.
One of the points I feel that my LO should get an A for is on the skin section. I won’t go into detail as to why to save time but my LO’s social worker agreed with this.
At the checklist meeting when I pointed out that my mother needs cream applied twice a day and tubby bandages as per the instructions from the sister at the leg ulcer clinic from mu LO’s previous borough , her response was that she is under this borough now.
That is when she made her comment about relatives’ opinions. Complaint in the pipeline.
Back to the care home manager and the meeting with the social worker present re the email trail avoidance, one of these emails was details of the recommendations from the leg ulcer clinic and raising my concerns this not being adhered to she said speak to the nursing staff. I pointed out that I had done that it still not being done and asked her again to reply to the emails.
Then out of blue she mentioned mums cognitive state, which threw me as it wasn’t relative to the conversation, but she said 'her cognitive state is good, she understands things.' I said no it wasn’t (how could it be when she has advancing Alzheimer’s thinks she 19 and can dance and is taking the knowledge to be a taxi driver)
Any way getting to my point, It seems to me that the care home manager is in in collusion with the council officer who did the check list.
I can’t think of what she would gain from this, brownie points maybe?
I will also point out the my LO’s original placement at the care home was by the NHS after multiple hospital admissions, this care home they sent her to is very far away from where she lived at the time and from where I live.
So food for thought.
Any opinions?