My mum was diagnosed with Mixed Alzheimer's and Vascular Dementia in early 2018 and has been living alone independently with my support ever since. Just before Christmas last year, I arranged for carers to make companionship visits twice a week and recently increased this to three visits a week. Recently, Mum has stopped changing her clothes and has been wearing the same outfit for a considerable amount of time. I've tried gentle persuasion, suggesting that another of her tops will be cooler etc. but no matter how tactful I am, she always takes offence (which I can understand, as she has no idea how long she has been wearing the same things). I pride myself on my 'sneakiness with the best intentions' for example, my partner distracts her with a chat in the garden whilst I dash round inside, just 'popping in to the loo' (!), to change her sheets, pop dirty towels etc. into a sack to take home to wash, cleaning the sinks etc. Mum is never the wiser, even when I bring the clean washing back into the house. However, I just cannot get her to change the current outfit! The carers have tried too without any luck.
Does anyone have any ideas (sneaky or otherwise) that would help, please?
Thank you in advance!
Does anyone have any ideas (sneaky or otherwise) that would help, please?
Thank you in advance!