Hello, this is my first post on her. My Mum has alzheimers and was taken to a care home last week based on a best interest decision made jointly between health and ss and myself. My Mum has no insight and even with home care in place was not eating, washing etc and has lost a significant amount of weight. I have been told that Mum won't be going back to her own home and that I should look round for a care home for her. The one where she is currently is classed as a respite bed and is almost 2 hours away from me. In addition there is quite a high third party top up that I will not be able to pay long term. I would like to move Mum close to me so that I can spend more time with me and I have been told by ss that this will have to be another best interests decision. I wondered if anyone else had moved a relative from one care home to another and how this can be done with the least possible disruption. Mum has significant memory problems and can get quite upset and agitated. I am really worried about driving her all that way to a new place and her being very upset. Any help or advice greatly appreciated.