Hi every time I am depressed I come on to this site for support but firstly I read posts and by the time I have read them I begin to think what a silly self centered man I have become some of the posts are really heart tugging and make me feel very insignificant with my problems.As I hope some of you will remember my last postings and the slow progress of alzheimers my wife being in her fourth year. In the past I have been able to leave Mollie for a couple of hours on her own whilst I went to the bank and such.Thats up to yesterday.When I returned from the bank there was a scruffy man sat on our settee in the longe with a pot of tea in his hand. I said to him who are you I dont know you and what are you doing in our house.His reply was your wife invited me in for a cup of tea I was gob smacked and went into the kitchen to sort my head out.On returning to the lounge Mollie was showing him out of the front door.I couldnt get to the bottom of it from Mollie as she had come confused.Next I take out my sons dog for a lunch time walk I picked up Charlie and made my way to the park and there he was sat on the wall looking at our house I thought this cant be left so I approached him and asked again what and how he had got into our house he said my wife Mollie came out and asked where I was he said I dont know and then he said Mollie said do want a cup of tea come inside.I let him know how I felt and told him in no mean way that I was annoyed and said it had better not happen again I then carried on with my walk and a local who I knew stopped me and told me that our visitor was well known by the police and had spent more time inside prison than out. Yesterday evening Mollie went to bed at 5.30 and came back down stairs in her knickers and bra saying the kids in the park want some sweets and she was going to the door with a bag full of Werthers of course I told her I would see to them.Now with these two incidents I am now grounded no more going to the bank or shopping on my own Mollie will have to come with me and sit in the locked car what are we coming too???????