My Dad remarried 40 years ago so his wife is regarded first next of kin, when he was first DX with AD around 15 months ago she says she didn't want POA but was " given it" I know you have to apply for it and to be quite honest you cant believe a single word that comes from her mouth any way!
Something happened a week ago no idea what it was and cant get enough sense out of her, I have never seen anything like how he was in A&E and hope I don't ever see it again! Before he had even had the dx she had started to contact her doctor to say about her not being able to care for him any more, god thats a joke some how she gets carers but the only care she provides is yelling at him what to do. Its him that does the care for her and isn't it funny that now he is in hospital she now needs care 3 times a day!.
The way she repeats herself over and over and will continue until she has finished telling me what she wants to say about herself then very conveniently cant hear you any more I honestly believe that she is not medically fit to have the decision making over my dad. She was adament shes not having him home even though he bought the house they live in and that was before he had any DX about what happened. BUT that's not my concern neither is the financial POA I don't care about the money I just don't want her able to do the decision making for him is there anything I can do.
Something happened a week ago no idea what it was and cant get enough sense out of her, I have never seen anything like how he was in A&E and hope I don't ever see it again! Before he had even had the dx she had started to contact her doctor to say about her not being able to care for him any more, god thats a joke some how she gets carers but the only care she provides is yelling at him what to do. Its him that does the care for her and isn't it funny that now he is in hospital she now needs care 3 times a day!.
The way she repeats herself over and over and will continue until she has finished telling me what she wants to say about herself then very conveniently cant hear you any more I honestly believe that she is not medically fit to have the decision making over my dad. She was adament shes not having him home even though he bought the house they live in and that was before he had any DX about what happened. BUT that's not my concern neither is the financial POA I don't care about the money I just don't want her able to do the decision making for him is there anything I can do.