Graham has been in the home now nearly 4 months and the change in the past few weeks is frightening.He still has mood swings changing from very pleasant to shouting and swearing at me in a flash still totally unpredictable.Is also regressing, the other day he was only 14, and when I tried to encourage him to eat a little more he said that he had enough to eat as he was only a young boy.talks about ships, he was in the navy,and seems to have imaginary friends.he is constantly asking if we are going to kill him, somedays he is any age between 14 and 17 sometimes he does not stop talking and it is all about the same things over and over again. This is now everyday not the odd day and is very upsetting,some days I leave in tears and somedays with a detached feeling. That feeling is not very nice,but we are now living in two different worlds and the old Graham is hardly ever there. We do get the occasional lucid comment,and he senses if i am having a bad day.
Our son was home for Xmas from New York grahams eyes lit up when he walked into his room and asked how long he as staying and when was he going back.yesterday he said the I did not like him anymore, do nothing for him and was a lazy... and that I had a boyfriend(as if I need any more stress in my life).
Is all this typical and what is the best way of dealing with it. Do you along with his conversation,and what about my own feelings.I am feeling the distance between us and find that hard to accept.How have other people coped, advice please?
Barbie
Our son was home for Xmas from New York grahams eyes lit up when he walked into his room and asked how long he as staying and when was he going back.yesterday he said the I did not like him anymore, do nothing for him and was a lazy... and that I had a boyfriend(as if I need any more stress in my life).
Is all this typical and what is the best way of dealing with it. Do you along with his conversation,and what about my own feelings.I am feeling the distance between us and find that hard to accept.How have other people coped, advice please?
Barbie