Hi everyone. We finally moved my dad into a specialist dementia unit in a nursing home on Monday. It was a very very difficult day, but he's in. I was chatting to some of the carers today about how he's getting on and they admitted he gets quite aggressive when they try to wash or change him. He's also not really sleeping much at night and spent the whole of last night just wandering.
It's very early days, of course, and all such a big change for him, but I'm concerned that all this will be considered 'challenging behaviour' and that they won't allow him to stay long term if things don't settle down soon.
How do care homes normally deal with this kind of behaviour? What happens if the can't handle him? I worry that if a specialist dementia unit can't deal with him, then who can and what are our options? Gosh, it's all such a worry. If anyone has any constructive thoughts/experience, do share them, I'd be very interested. Thank you in advance, this is such a brilliant and supportive community
It's very early days, of course, and all such a big change for him, but I'm concerned that all this will be considered 'challenging behaviour' and that they won't allow him to stay long term if things don't settle down soon.
How do care homes normally deal with this kind of behaviour? What happens if the can't handle him? I worry that if a specialist dementia unit can't deal with him, then who can and what are our options? Gosh, it's all such a worry. If anyone has any constructive thoughts/experience, do share them, I'd be very interested. Thank you in advance, this is such a brilliant and supportive community