Well David is still asleep now so that has been ok. He ate half his dinner and had a drink and allowed my to change him for bed. They said he hadn't hardly eaten wouldn't drink and when I was getting him ready to bring him home he only had net knickers on, no pad and obviously wet trousers. It took me a long while to get him ready to bring home, told me to go away. Got there in the end. He looks like he has lost weight his face looks a bit sunken in if that makes sense. He hasn't had a shave for the week he was in there, so that makes everything look worse. The doctor is coming this morning to see him. I am expecting calls from the social worker and care co-ordinater. I don't now know what the future holds. I was about to start the process of looking for a care home and sorting out with social services all that has to be done if we found somewhere. But now I have no confidence in finding anywhere, as how can i know what would be good ,and anyway if David refuses help how can I feel comfortable knowing that. xxx