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I do hope that today's planned visit was a good one for you both Casbow x
Yep. It's not just Casbow, on her own, trying to cope with everything.There's not much anyone can say Casbow. It's as good as it can be I think. The only saving grace is, as I found, you have someone to share the caring.
Thinking if you. Love and hugs M xxx![]()
So glad to hear things were better. I suppose there are bound to be off days. And how are you, Casbow?
Hello Lilac Blossom. I am happy to share my diary with you. My husband has only been in nursing home for 2 weeks and four days. It is i think going ok. Difficult, as he is different each time when i visit. Its his birthday tomorrow and a friend is visiting with me. Fingers crossed all will be ok. It is very hard to come home alone and feeling like maybe I could have gone on a bit longer.The guilt will never go away. I did my best for 10 years but it wasn't enough. I think about him all the time. Wondering if he is happy in his own little world or angry and restless and pacing about. But I cannot know can I.?!!!xxx
He seems so unkind. So couldn't care less. So sod you mum get on with it.
Keep communication open. You will hurt yourself more if you don't. Also don't risk alienating your DIL too, which taking a hard line probably will.