I remember that feeling well, Casbow. When things got really bad with William, and he had tried to strangle me twice, so a nursing home was no longer an "option" but a necessity for both our sakes, I did all the paperwork, the financial assessments etc. and waited. Because of cutbacks etc., it took over five months and finally the intervention of a local politician before his funding was released, and I was just lucky the nursing home were able to take him immediately. During that five months, he was in emergency respite several times, and one of those times, he was so severely dehydrated from refusing to drink at home, that he couldn't stand.
We do our very best to care for our loved ones, but there comes a time when we simply can't do it alone, it's a job for a fully staffed unit, who can spread the load. xx
We do our very best to care for our loved ones, but there comes a time when we simply can't do it alone, it's a job for a fully staffed unit, who can spread the load. xx