Can anyone offer some advice. My former 67 yr old husband ( we had been married 18 years) who has no one except for me and son arrived back from Spain with Alzeimers and was put into an EMI care home, we had always been close and kept in touch except for last 3 years, we are now very close and I get him out and about, visit him 3 times a week etc. Both I and his eldest son have actively been involved since day one ensuring he is ok, buying his clothes and personal effects, taking him out, hospital apointments etc. We are having problems with the Social Worker making desicions for him such as Appointeeship to the Council for his pension etc without consulting us, bullying tatics to get my husband to make decisions which he does not have the mental capacity to do so, me being treated with suspicion and as a third-party despite doing everything for him these last 6 months. Where do I go to for help and to complain ?