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I wonder if you and the carer would find this helpful @Kay111
I wonder if you and the carer would find this helpful @Kay111
I honestly believe that it will quickly settle down into a routine; with Mum looking forward to hearing the latest news etc from the carerUrgh. Stress levels are up. New carer and agency rep came and dad was actually not so bad. The lady was lovely BUT has never done personal care before and now that she's gone mum is raging that she's paying good money and not getting trained help and how she'll just end up doing everything.
I'm in the mindset let's give the lady a chance but mum is winding me up something rotten with her complaining. I guess we're just both a bit disappointed.
Not easy, you have got to find out what is causing the aggression and try and limit it as far as possible.So, two weeks on and Dad's personal care aggression is getting worse!