Hi
my wife who has alzheimers has lost the use of her legs ,I have injured my back trying to get her on the toilet during then night, she has two carers who call 4 times a day.
When the carers try to lift her out of her seat to go on the commode she stiffens her legs and pushes backwards which makes it very difficult for them control her.
They have been working with her for about a month with this problem and today one of the carers who was a supervisor told me they would not try to put her on the toilet
I asked them how was I to manage by myself? They where all for just leaving her in her wet pants and going.
They just shrugged their shoulders and said it was up to the occupation therapist to find a way. The OT has been on my wife's case for months and cannot solve the problem mean while the caring company cannot offer any suggestions
Which looks like I am going have my wife, who is incontinent, just permanently in her bed in her own mess
I asked surely other dementia patents must have these problems but I am just getting shrugged shoulders
Who can I turn to get help as the situation is critical
I would appreciate any advice
Len
my wife who has alzheimers has lost the use of her legs ,I have injured my back trying to get her on the toilet during then night, she has two carers who call 4 times a day.
When the carers try to lift her out of her seat to go on the commode she stiffens her legs and pushes backwards which makes it very difficult for them control her.
They have been working with her for about a month with this problem and today one of the carers who was a supervisor told me they would not try to put her on the toilet
I asked them how was I to manage by myself? They where all for just leaving her in her wet pants and going.
They just shrugged their shoulders and said it was up to the occupation therapist to find a way. The OT has been on my wife's case for months and cannot solve the problem mean while the caring company cannot offer any suggestions
Which looks like I am going have my wife, who is incontinent, just permanently in her bed in her own mess
I asked surely other dementia patents must have these problems but I am just getting shrugged shoulders
Who can I turn to get help as the situation is critical
I would appreciate any advice
Len