I have a Carer's Assessment today, and the form says What help do you need? With the help of my family we are in the process of getting good help. It has been an uphill journey, introducing the right people, people who my husband will accept, albeit still very reluctantly. So, what I really need is MONEY to fund this, not some package where complete strangers will invade my husband's space and cause him a lot of confusion and upset! Of course, this isn't going to be an option is it?