Our 'lovely' SS is ringing me tomorrow to do a carer's assessment. This is because I requested help from Crossroads who provide a 'sitting' service. Does anyone have any tips about what to say? And what not to say? Is it just relating to me? Dad is emphatic that he doesn't want 'those nosey so-and-so's' at the council prying into his financial affairs so I don;t want to prompt anything that could lead to my parents being hassled.