Hello everyone, I'm new to the group. My father passed away on December 13th. My mother has been suffering from Alzheimer for about two years now, and since she cannot live by herself, she has moved in with us. I already have a full-time job, a husband and three children. I go to bed every night crying. I know my mother can't help having this terrible disease, but what with grieving for my dad (we were extremely close and it hit me really hard), and repeating myself constantly to my mum .... I really feel despaired. My life changed completely on December 13th, and I don't know if it will be the same again. I have no time for my husband, children, and least of all for myself. I feel completely depressed and don't know what to do. We live in Spain, my mother doesn't speak Spanish, so it's very difficult to find an English-speaking support group for her. I really don't know what do to.... would appreciate hearing from anyone who's going through something similar.