Good morning and all the best for the New Year.
My wife, I am her carer, over a month ago had a care plan review, to date we have not received a copy of it, is this normal? From the conversation with the social worker the prevision of respite will be offered. But my wife point blankly refuses to go into resident care for a weekend to allow it to take place, in her mind she is perfectly capable of staying at home and looking after her self. More importantly she resents the idea of my going off on my own, to do something interesting and leaving her at home all by herself.
The social workers attitude was basically that, if she would not stay voluntarily, they would put an order in place (sorry I forget its name) which would lock her in the residential care facility.
I tried to explain, that if this was tried how badly it would be for me, firstly getting her ready for the respite would be a nightmare and after the respite, well words could not describe how much grief she would give me. I do not understand why the social worker could not or would not understand this?
On a similar vein why do 'officials' always seem to ask you what problems there are care of your loved ones in front to the person you care for??
please any comments of advice welcome, just writing it down is good, problem shared, as they say.
Take care.
My wife, I am her carer, over a month ago had a care plan review, to date we have not received a copy of it, is this normal? From the conversation with the social worker the prevision of respite will be offered. But my wife point blankly refuses to go into resident care for a weekend to allow it to take place, in her mind she is perfectly capable of staying at home and looking after her self. More importantly she resents the idea of my going off on my own, to do something interesting and leaving her at home all by herself.
The social workers attitude was basically that, if she would not stay voluntarily, they would put an order in place (sorry I forget its name) which would lock her in the residential care facility.
I tried to explain, that if this was tried how badly it would be for me, firstly getting her ready for the respite would be a nightmare and after the respite, well words could not describe how much grief she would give me. I do not understand why the social worker could not or would not understand this?
On a similar vein why do 'officials' always seem to ask you what problems there are care of your loved ones in front to the person you care for??
please any comments of advice welcome, just writing it down is good, problem shared, as they say.
Take care.