Just been to visit my first care home for possibly my OH with a view for day care then possibly respite which might lead to residential . Want somewhere which will flow through to keep him comfortable. The staff were lovely but I found it upsetting that I am thinking down this route. Family have told me that I need to consider this for my own health as they live so far away and they say I can't do it on my own anymore. They are here on a visit and have seen a big change since they were here four months ago. Feeling very nervous and unsettled when I think of taking this next step.